From earliest memory I have obsessively compemplated the nature of being, love & potential. Potential in terms of how one is or may be in the world. As a child who had a queer perspective & parents who displayed atypical gender roles, the idea of a binary of she/he did not cause distrubance - what did disturb was the constant assumption that socially assigned behaviors & expectations based on some bits of flesh one could locate approximately 2/3s of the way down ones body could dictate this potential expression, the nature of being & the possiblity of love. And - that somehow those assignations & expectations are innate. This I think is pure pravarication... We are all pure potential.